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My Life Journey in Sweden (2)

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    The Third , about my romantic relationship. I have been struggle about love life since i was 17, and my experience always teach me how to cope with a strange rejection. Last year also the same, i met many guys from Online dating and from my friends recommendations who try to match making me in order to help me to stay longer. I have to face the same rejection but in a different way than what i experienced before, for instance, when i started to date with local citizens and they know i came from Asian, they told me aha you're just kind of girl who want to try to use me for your purpose to stay in here or they thought that my love life is a shortcut for getting visa lol. They didn't know the reason why i came there, they even didn't know about my journey and how i really feel like there is something in Sweden that will help me to found a piece of puzzle that i am looking for but yeah its nothing hahaha.. its also a funny experience to get to know a guy from anyw...

My Life Journey in Sweden (1)

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           My whole life before I came to Sweden, I didn't know how it feels like to be lonely.. I've been living separately with my family since I was 15 to live close to my school, and I continue moving to pursue my study in college also when I start to work and has been traveling alone without any company in meantime, so I would say that I am pretty getting used to being alone to do everything to live but to feel lonely? I never experienced those kinds of feeling at all. I was 24yo when I arrived in Sweden. There is no complete doubt in me to go to a new country for the first time because I believe everywhere is my home. So I do not worry whether I will get lost or so on. I feel fulfilled and content even during my stay in Sweden. I've been through a lot of shit all of sudden during my stay, but I felt there is a higher power that always drags me out, keeping me safe and helping me in every pathway that I've experienced. When I don't have money, fo...

How to get a friends in Sweden?

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  Arrive at a place that is completely strange and different from your home country might be raising concern about where will I get a friend to socialize in a new place?. This comes across to my mind at first, but after I figure out these tips below, I can make my weekly schedule so tight with any kind of socialize activities appointment to exploring a new country. So if you dare to explore a new location for the first time, maybe these tips will help you open up in a new environment and have a recent worldwide companion. 1.Online Dating You might be familiar with this first option, online dating was not only famous for having a romantic relationship but also works well to gather a new person as a friend. Most people around Sweden are used Tinder as a main or the common one online dating. However, instead of using Tinder while I was living there, I used to have OkCupid as another option. I met quite many people during my a year experience, and a few of them was ended up becoming my...